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A Thought on Time and Connection

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  We say we’re busy. Too busy to call, too busy to meet, too busy to reply. But I believe—when someone truly matters, we make time. Even in the smallest ways. A message. A voice note. A moment. Phones were meant to connect us. Yet now, they often separate us. Two people sitting together, both scrolling, Not speaking. Not seeing. Childhood friends knew us before the layers. Before the titles, the timelines, the responsibilities. They saw us grow. They saw us dream. And now, some drift away—not with anger, but with life. We say “I’ll meet you soon.” But when that friend finally says, “I’m here,” We reply, “Okay.” And that “Okay” carries a silence louder than words. Then years pass. We meet again. We smile, we ask the same questions— “What do you do now?” “How’s your husband?” “Where are you working?” And after a few days, the silence returns. Until the next cycle. Same questions. Same distance. It makes you wonder— Do they ask because they care? Or because it’s polite? Do we really ...
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The Tapestry of Friendship

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F riendship, like a woven tapestry, holds threads of vulnerability, trust, and understanding. Within its intricate patterns, we find moments of joy, shared secrets, and laughter echoing through the fabric of time. Yet, there are knots—those moments when honesty tugs at the threads. When a friend stumbles, unaware of their own missteps, we stand at a crossroads. Do we unravel the truth, risking frayed bonds? Or do we weave silence, hoping the pattern remains intact? Here's the paradox: True friendship isn't just about laughter and sunny days. It's also about weathering storms together. It's the courage to say, "Your behavior affects me," or "I see something you might not." But fear tiptoes in—the fear of rejection, of unraveling what we've carefully stitched. We wonder: If I speak up, will they listen? Will they understand, or will our friendship fray? And so, we weigh our words. Sometimes, we choose silence, allowing the loom of time to mend what...
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The Art of Saying “No”

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B alancing our commitments to others with self-care is like tending to a delicate ecosystem.  In the bustling symphony of life, we often play multiple roles: friend, family member, colleague. Each note we contribute matters, but amidst the crescendo, we must also find moments of silence—a pause to recharge, recalibrate, and reconnect with our own rhythm. In the garden of choices, we tend fragile blooms—our commitments. Each petal unfurls with a whispered invitation: "Come, join me." But sometimes, the soil of our hearts is parched. We ache for solitude, for quietude. And yet, when a friend extends their hand, we hesitate. The word "no" trembles on our lips, caught between honesty and obligation. Remember this: Saying "no" isn't a rejection; it's an affirmation of self. It's the gentle tug of a kite string, pulling you back to your center. So, when faced with the choice, let your heart speak: *"I appreciate your invitation, but today, I ne...
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Wonder of Life.

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  As I live my life, I'm amazed by how many people there are on Earth, each with their own habits and ways of living. Every day, so many things happen, and people deal with them in different ways. It's incredible to think about all the different experiences people have. I often think about how we all see things differently. For example, when I look at an object, my view is shaped by my experiences and feelings. Someone else might see the same object in a completely different way. This shows how diverse our perspectives are. When I'm emotional and crying, having someone there to comfort me is really important. They might tell me not to cry or remind me that being too angry isn't good. Their support means a lot, even though I don't always know what they're thinking. Empathy is key in these moments. It's about understanding and sharing someone else's feelings. When someone empathizes with us, they connect with our emotions and offer real support. This make...
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Green Twist !

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  It’s MAY have your attention. This is not about Mother’s Day. It’s about Earth day. Earth is the motherland of all the mothers. Earth Day is celebrated on April 22nd every year to raise awareness about environmental issues and encourage people to take action to protect the planet. And Mother's Day is celebrated on the second Sunday of May in the United States to honor mothers and motherhood. Both are important days to celebrate and show appreciation for the things that sustain us. As an human being , I'm playing different roles as daughter, wife, mother. And stepping into the shoes of different characters. But sometimes, the most challenging role is being myself.  “As a mother, I always try to do what’s best for my child and for the world they will inherit. That’s why, when I threw a birthday party for my son, I had the best intentions when it came to being environmentally conscious. I bought biodegradable plates and utensils, set up recycling bins, and tried my best to mak...
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The Joy of clutter.

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  As a mother, I know how hard it can be to keep a tidy and organized home. There are always toys, clothes, books, and other things scattered around the house. Sometimes I feel like I’m drowning in mess. Sometimes I feel like I’m failing as a parent. Sometimes I feel like I should be more like those people on social media who have perfect homes and perfect lives. But then I look at my child. I see him playing with his things. I see him exploring his ideas and expressing his creativity. I see him having fun and learning new things. And then I realize that clutter is not a bad thing. Clutter is a sign of life and personality. Clutter is a sign of happiness and curiosity. Clutter is a sign of him.  Celebrates the messy house as a sign of life, love, and learning.  And that’s something to be proud of, not ashamed of. That’s something to embrace, not hide. That’s something to celebrate, not worry about. Clutter can make you happier by reflecting your personality and memories....
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Balance..!

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   In  a web series I was watching, there was a scene where a husband told his wife that if they had to spend money, it would come out of their savings which he had kept for their old age. This is a common concern for many people who are trying to balance their current needs with their future financial goals.      Then I started thinking about it. Why we have to think it now about our future savings if you need something for now. And you never know about tomorrow that you will be there or not.     Saving money for the future is important, but it's also important to enjoy life in the present. It's all about finding a balance between the two. One way to do this is to create a budget that includes both short-term and long-term savings goals. This can help you prioritize your spending and make sure you're saving enough for the future while still enjoying life in the present.     You can't predict the future, but you can prepare for it. Savin...
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